My boyfriend of a little over a year, is he a keeper or a flyer?

He sounds like he's either the best bf ever, or a total jerk sometimes. Checking your texts and being jealous of your guy friends isn't a good thing. It shows he doesn't trust you if he checks your texts, it's like he's making sure you don't talk to any other guys which is not cool. Disliking phone convos isn't bad because I used to be the same way lol but if he hardly even texts you and then doesn't want to talk on the phone i would be a little suspicious. I don't really have a solid answer...just that he doesn't seem to actually trust you hanging out with guy friends and he doesn't want you talking to them either.